Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Leelah (Joshua) Alcorn society failed you, and I'm sorry


I’m so grateful to WCPO for amending their first story about a 17 yr old boy who accidentally walked in front of a tractor trailer on I-71: http://www.wcpo.com/web/wcpo/news/local-news/warren-county/joshua-alcorn-kings-mill-teen-killed-on-i-71-remembered-as-sweet-talented

To the truth: a 17 yr old transgendered girl committed suicide after walking 4 miles from her home because she wasn’t accepted by her parents: http://www.wcpo.com/news/local-news/warren-county/leelah-alcorn-suicide-note-sparks-transgender-discussion

Maybe now people will start talking about 2 of the most taboo topics in today’s society: sex and suicide.  For so long both have been swept under the rug- too shameful to discuss. 

This story should make you sad.  Religious, Atheist, gay, straight, lesbian, transsexual, transgender- NO child (no person) should ever feel this isolated and lonely.  I am disgusted by the fact that this child’s parents have decided to pretend their 17 yr old boy was killed in a car accident, instead of facing the harsh reality that they are at fault for the death of their daughter.
I wish she had found help.  I wish she had found happiness, and acceptance, and peace.  Nobody should ever feel their life is unbearable.  No parent should ever make their child feel so hopeless.  Am I pointing the finger? Damn straight.  Leelah wanted help.  Instead she was told to pray the gay away.  I hope this beautiful, talented, sweet child has found peace in whatever afterlife exists out there.  This story will stay with me for a long time.  I find myself feeling regretful that I couldn’t help her.

So talk… that’s what we do- talk about this story.  If you’re a parent, encourage your child to be him or herself.  Create a relationship of honesty and inclusion in your house.  Reach out to a friend who hasn’t acted like him or herself lately.  Smile at a stranger. Quit turning your back on people who aren’t like you.  <end rant>

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